arodorable:

“Do we really need all these labels?”

Let me tell you, as someone who bounced around and spent years trying to find a label to explain my orentation, finding one that almost fits is still alienating. You often won’t relate to the rest of that community, because you’re experiances are different. It’s not always a lot, but it can be very noticeable. You’ll find yourself explaining why you’re different than the definition, which can lead to feeling like you’re misusing the word or feeling like you don’t belong.

If you don’t like all the labels or find them confusing and hard to remember, fine. But they have a purpose and they’re helping people. Having more labels available for people looking for them is not a problem. If you feel like you can’t keep track of them, that’s fine. I honestly don’t think any of us expect you to know ever last little one. What we expect is that when we say our orentation and explain what it is, you will accept it and continue to treat us with respect.

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forgotten-sexualities:

Asexual/romantic
Demisexual/romantic
Gray asexual/romantic
Fraysexual/romantic
Cupiosexual/romantic
Lith/Akiosexual/romantic
Abrosexual/romantic
Quoisexual/romantic
Placiosexual/romantic
Skoliosexual/romantic
Reciprosexual/romantic
Requiessexual/romantic
Polysexual/romantic
Pansexual/romantic

I almost never see any posts with the majority of these, and people need to know that we exist too. It’s easier to find some of these on places like Tumblr and Google more than others. If yours is often forgotten and not on here, please feel free to add it on. Stay wonderful!

Don’t ever hesitate. Reblog this. TUMBLR RULE. When you see it, REBLOG IT.

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i-wrotethisforme:

The boy I liked in college would always invite me over at night to do homework or play video games or make grilled cheese, it was always something different. And sometimes I’d lay with him while he watched videos for his biology class and play with his hair. And he’d always complain when the videos were long but I was genuinely always so happy when they were, because I just liked being with him. And for the length of those videos it was just me and him with the lights off not even talking at all. But then they’d end and it’d be late and he would call his girlfriend to say goodnight and I would walk home to my apartment downstairs. Because reality is a lot messier than a 20 minute video about cells.


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